If, though, we are saying that technology has changed the game in regards to how single young men and women approach one another, before that relationship is defined, then I have a lot of concern about technology.The ability to text or to tweet or to just write on someone’s wall enables you to flirt and tease without there ever being a “what-exactly-is-this-relationship” moment.We get a lot of questions from young Christian men and women who are “not yet married.” Their season of life awakens many desires and hopes, uncertainties and insecurities, and tricky pastoral questions.
Is there such a thing as “too fast” in Christian dating? Another good way to start a conversation and get to know this person. Is it hearing babies laugh or watching a great comedy? [Read: Is dating really the best way to get over your ex? I think what you are looking for is seriousness about growth in the person’s faith.